Why do Friends become Strangers? Over time I have learned that it is so important to spent time with the ones who help you grow. You may give your 100% in a relationship and still feel empty inside. First of all, you should learn to choose the right people, and only then, your life will take a positive direction.
If you aren’t getting anyone to help you and keep you happy then, this gives a second lesson that you should be fine in your company. There is no harm in being alone and knowing yourself more than others.
Friends becoming Strangers
It is so important to indulge your soul in the activities that you enjoy the most; there is no other way to do this except to keep yourself away from everyone for a while. It is destructive to be in a toxic relationship that isn’t sowing positive seeds in the garden of your heart. Many a time, we make this mistake and become creepy.
We don’t try to find whether the person wants us to be with them or not; we fall for the number of people rather than the quality. Little by little, they take our true personality; we don’t realize it because of getting too busy laughing with that group. Slowly we internally become weak to live alone life; that is when we understand the power of the good people.
Gradually, we try to distance ourselves from them but the situation worsens because they don’t realize their mistake but interpret you as a “selfish” person. We think that we are full of flaws and that is why someone is not accepting us. But the truth is; maximum people like to be with the people who are alike them and this gives the third lesson that we are perfect as we are and no one has any right to say We feel like a leftover with the people we spent most of the time with, and the days become hard to pass because we never learned to spend solitude time.
Our energy declines, and the mind becomes confused. We find hard to explain to anyone what’s going on in our life. But the strongest of the people try to figure out the solution and hold themselves tightly for any storm that may arrive.
Those who make you feel left out helps you to build a solid soul that becomes more powerful with each passing time, and your understanding of relationships becomes more proficient.