It has been almost a year since we do everything online including online school. It is never easy for any of us, from students to the elder. First, let’s talk about the cost to an adult and elder:
FIRST, attacking their job, people lost their job due to pandemic because the company does it recently to reduce expenses.
SECOND, attacking their finance, the crisis of economic in every people, institution country, region, and others.
THIRD, attacking their mental stress of trying to think of a way to survive the economic crisis.
Now let’s talk about the effect that it did on parents’ and children’s relationships. The effect children’s mental health examples: because parents often see kids as an opportunity to get a good idea for a business they tend to “encourage” their kids to start thinking about what business is successful in this pandemic. Even though it is good to start thinking about our future but they are still kids who need education and are taking online school.
Encouragement, parents probably think that this type of encouragement could lead their mindset between whether they should help make business with their parents and do adult stuff or they should just focus on their education. When they choose to focus on their education, they will feel bad about not helping their parents.
Then, parents often underestimated children. They thought they would have a lot of spare time because they are studying at home, but the fact, children have a lot of homework that is assigned by their teacher, there is always some student that can’t understand their material and others. Children have their faculties the same as adults, so don’t underestimate they are not busy and difficult too.
THEY HAVE DIFFICULTIES.
All of these things could make children think that they are useless and unworthy. This thing should be avoided immediately and handle your children with care. Just believe them that they can be successful and encourage them in a positive way such as ” You’ve got this “, ” It’s okay, try again “, etc. . This is because if you respect children, they will appreciate it and be happy. The most important thing, they will work hard to make it happen.