before the pandemic, my usual Monday mornings are my busiest of all week. Waking up at 6.30 in the morning just to think of all activities that will happen during that day and the rest of the week. Normally, i even make a list of all color-coded tasks for each day just so that I never forget a meeting. Once in a while, I get up earlier to take a walk, that way there won’t be any paparazzi.
how I start off my day?
I wake up to a little busier day than normal. I’d rather make my own breakfast than be served in bed, that way I wouldn’t get over the top and go crazy that I am a pop star or anything reminding myself that singing is only my hobby and that I like to get it out there and the fans well I’d rather call them family, they are always there sometimes even for advice, to be honest. Just after breakfast, I have a recording session, which would take around two hours. First, the producers and I just lay our ideas and feelings on what my next song would be, sometimes even contact other singers to collab with, and then for the rest of the time, all producers and people in the studio would just bond, to make their experience more fun and all than just them working for me.
From then on, I have a personal trainer which will help me focus on myself. Sometimes it’s just sad how people assume because you are famous, that you are happy. What they don’t see is that every person has their ups and downs and sometimes celebrities restore to hide it from their fans because of fear of their judgments and their emotions will be apparent
When it comes to concerts, I don’t always have them; it’s typically every week or so for me. I know other influencers that have concerts instead of having a concert once a week, they have a week full of them (all after each other), sometimes even all day. Honestly, I don’t know how they do it.
Back to my Monday afternoon, I go on a shopping spree with my family. Generally, I buy a week’s whole shopping list. The paparazzi make it harder for privacy. I love them but sometimes all you need is some space and to enjoy yourself. But with people holding cameras following you all day wherever you go, it’s just too much to bear.
dating is a delicate issue
Whenever you try to enjoy a normal dinner with a guy friend, everyone will assume you are dating and make it awkward between us and not just that, it’ll be known worldwide before you even manage to tell your own best friend that you are dating someone. That’s not even the worst thing about being famous. It’s the part when you genuinely start harboring feelings for a guy, he will break it down to you that he was only using you for fame.
Later on, it’ll be my family and I eating together peacefully, I like to call it mini-family time. It’s more of a chatting zone rather than an eating zone. I just forget about social media for once and just be there in the moment. Obviously, I have to do my daily two hours of study every day to keep up. You never know when you need it and I am definitely home-schooled. I can’t go to school, otherwise, all these eyes will be on me, and I am just trying to live a normal life after all. At this point, it will be around 8 pm. I have another recording session to discuss further more about new music coming out and the music videos. Fans never stop texting and commenting on my posts that they need new songs. And when they ask, you have to deliver.
a list of hatred comments
For the most part that’ll take up to an hour, it’s just me and my social media. I check fans’ edits and comments on my posts and try to reply to the most questions. Sometimes I come across hatred comments and it’s just sad how people hate on others instead of just ignoring the post. It’s like it’s something that gives them joy and it honestly hurts to think that people take the time to hate on others forgetting that we are all humans. But seeing those edits made me realize how grateful I should feel for everything and all the fans I have, and sometimes you can never please everyone. Just before I go to bed I pet my two kittens and get ready to sleep.
What you don’t see coming doesn’t hurt but wow I woke up so shocked and scared when my cat scratched me. She didn’t just scratch me in my dream but also in reality. I don’t know if that’s all that happens in a day in the life of a pop star but that seemed so realistic. I thought I lived in it for a second. As you can see just a day in the life of any celebrity can be really hectic sometimes.
Singers, Dancers, Tiktokers, Actors, all celebrities have one thing incommon! It’s the fact that they work hard and still get hate but no matter what they never give up!
