As human beings, we live where we make friends, relations, all souls, and blood connections with people. Some relations we have are our families, our blood relations, and some we make by our souls and our hearts with people.
However all people, we are surrounded or close to us, all those relations depending on our mentality and our mind orders. All connections we made are by the selection of our mind and heart, but the mind always plays a great role in every aspect of our lives.
We have heard about physical violence, some of us have experienced also, or many of us have seen with our eyes. When we see violence or just hear about violence over woman or man, we start scaring or hating and always want to stop that shit, that behavior and many of us are trying to stop this cruelty against every human being, there are punishments by different laws against violence. But this kind of violence we see, and then we feel, what about the violence which is doing with our souls and minds? What about the unseen violence, what about the scars we have in our souls and minds, which are unseen to ourselves to? what about those wounds which we are taking with our souls and minds and hearts?
Many of us think that all toxics’ comfortableness sadness and our daily changed behavior is our mistake is our fault.at least I was thinking that all these kinds of depression anxieties are just my fault. I can’t understand others, and I am responsible for that shit which is happening to me. I have to change myself. But as the passage of time whenever I listened about physical violence in newspapers or some drams or series, I feel that violence, I remembered all those behaviors, those thoughts which left me always hurt, I start to remember and being imagined again and again about the wounds which are unseen those stories give me a flesh back of my own stories. Which are unheard of and you might have felt that too becauseof everyone in this world has such scars and wounds which has been given by others, by the peoples we always loved them, by the relations we never want to lose. But when they attack own our mental health we should leave behind those because sometimes we are confused between the sentence that we always say to our selves that one day everything will be fine, but sometimes that day never come in our lives and instead of that we make ourselves sick and surrounded our selves with mental illnesses, and all those diseases left us weak, empty, emotionless, painless, and lifeless.
Every disease needs to be cured at the early stages always, but we always late in these mental diseases, because some of us are waiting for the time everything will be okay and some us don’t want to lose those toxic sick peoples who have put us in all these conditions, because of love, and attachments we have with them.but my dears first you have to learn to love yourself and to love yourself isn’t selfish…when you love yourself you start caring of your self then you will be able to give love to others, when you start listening to your wounds, only then you can understand to others pain, same as when you learn to heal yourself first only, then you can be the healer for others.
Some times all those people who have made us hurt or put us in such mental issues, they also have no idea what they are doing to others …so please be kind to each one, do a favor to all living things that be humble and kind. Be a healer, don’t be the part of violence, be positive, and spread peace all over the world.
From my point of view, don’t punish yourself, don’t get confused, just sit and tell them that you can’t handle it anymore, you need a space, you need peace, this time you want to choose yourself first and let make it happen, remember your mental health and your life is more important. Listen, listen to your untold, unseen wounds, heal them, and live again, now live for yourself, be kind to yourself. When I experienced this and started healing myself I have met a new version of me, version which is more happy, peaceful, and full of life.
Share your experiences in the comment section, I would love to hear from you.