Every single step of life takes us to the path of learning. But we are unconscious of that. We laugh, smile, worry, get broken, and then heal and again we are hurt we cry and suffer and then heal. The footway from getting hurt to get healed is what makes us learned. But we do not count on the moments we cried and wiped the tears, we tried not to cry and be strong, every sob of despair, each heavy sigh of our breath because we want to get healed in a moment and run away from the pain.
To elude the wound is not going to lessen the pain. We are gonna get hurt each day till the wound gets healed. Getting hurt does not mean the process of healing has stopped. The process of healing demands patience and slowly we heal. The same way from bad days we get hurt to reach the good days.
If in the road we do not get hurt, then know we are astray because if there is no pain there is no healing. We are damaged to get healed and strong. The confronts seem tough on us somedays and wrench us into pieces. We become powerless in front of the frosty world, we are scorned due to our imperfections, we are forced to burst into helpless cry and yes, we weep.
Shedding tears does not mean you are helpless your tears show your emotions it just means you are hurt and broken. Crying is totally ok and it is a genuine reaction of every human being and it is in the process of learning.
We should learn to live through the pain and feel what it costs to get healed and learned.