Life is a gift of God. It matters how you are living life. “Happiness is a direction, not a place “ it depends on how you direct your life towards happiness. Learn to value your life and fight for your happiness. A healthy married life depends upon how you direct your life towards a strong relationship. Deepen your understanding and redefine your love to be a happy couple.
Happiness and Peace
Everyone wants a happy and peaceful life, but none was trying to achieve that. In this entire world, only 12% of couples lead a happy, peaceful, and joyful life after getting married. Why 88% of couples were not happy, maybe you will also be one among them. Do you ever think about why your life after marriage is not happy? Everyone used to complain that their married life was not as happy as they expected. Because before marriage, we lived in another kind of life, and marriage life is entirely different from that. Many won’t realize that in certain points of life we should change ourselves to attain a happy and healthy marriage life.
For every unhappy couple is Ego. The first thing you have to do is to throw and kill your Ego and see your partner as your own soul mate. Many used to tell a partner was their better half, but how many of them have sincerely seen them as their better half? Be true to yourself and see your spouse as your better half by understanding what your spouse is expecting from you.
Blaming and complaining about your life partner should be avoided. Accept the mistakes and think it’s your life partner forgive and correct them rather than blaming them for their mistakes. The important thing is the tone you used to your spouse while correcting them. Nobody is perfect in this world and don’t expect 100% perfection. The next aspect is time. Spend prioritized regular quality time together with some romance because if you won’t spend now then when? How much time you spend together will matter in a healthy relationship.
Understanding has a vital role in every relationship. If both understand each other what they are then half the problem will be solved. Understanding the spouse what they are and what they want will guide you to a happy life.
Arguments are the most common thing in between every couple, but there is a tone of the arguments. Rather than arguing for the unwanted things or topics think about a life you wanted for and stop arguing. Wasting your precious time in arguments better spend time for love and affection because love and affection are some of the important things in life which matter a healthy relationship. Everyone needs their own space, gives the space what your spouse really wants to do.
Comparison is the worst part of life, so stop comparing your life with others. Everyone born in this world is unique and every couple has their own uniqueness. When you see the other couples that they are happy you don’t know what problems they are facing and how their life really was.
The power of positive affirmations
Give your life with positive affirmations, then it will be filled with positive things. How much you are positive with your partner, the happy couple will be you. Start a day with some positive vibes like when you wake up, kiss your spouse, discuss how the day should be started and what all things have to do to help in cooking, cleaning, etc. Do the things that your spouse is expecting from you, then your life will be in peace.
In every family, there will be Ego, fights, arguments, comparison, etc. Be matured and learn to handle it. Only you can solve your problems, not others. Fights will happen but solve it before going to bed to sleep rather than carrying it to the next day.
Life is too short and we have to face a lot of struggles and hurdles. Enjoy each and every moment with your spouse and face all struggles and hurdles together. Remember 1 min of your fight you are losing 60 sec of happiness. In this short period of life if you’re not living happily then there won’t be any point of living. Make a life that others can follow you. Happiness, peace, love, and care are not made, they are created,.Create your own and make your life like a butterfly in the garden.