There are many difficulties when it comes to marriage. The most
popular are expectations, intimacy, connection and money. All of
these topics can contribute to a problem. The husband may spend a
lot of money on his gambling habits while the wife is upset and just
wants him to stop. They need that money for their children.
Another example is for the woman. She is often too busy doing things
around the house that she becomes stressed and sex is the last thing
on her mind. However, the husband highly values intimacy and
without it, he may feel as if he is growing apart from his wife.
You see, it’s all the little things that will add up to cause a husband
and wife to start arguing. They may be resentful toward one another
and not want to work things out with each other. Some may try but
sometimes the other person isn’t as cooperative as they are. This is
what makes relationships so difficult. Here are the four difficulties
when it comes to marriage:
The wife has such high expectations for you when you get home. She
doesn’t want you to leave your towel on the floor and also won’t let
you eat in your own room, out of fear that there will be crumbs on the
bed. This doesn’t make you thrilled at all. As for you, you expect your
wife to always have dinner ready by the time you come home and to
look her best. This is all you really care about.
If you’ve been craving intimacy for a few weeks and your husband is
too tired to do anything with you, it is important to understand how
he feels. Instead of pressuring him, give him a soft backrub that
shows you care. He may be under a lot of stress from work. When it
comes to intimacy, it works both ways for men and women.
Connecting with your other half is very important. If the two of you
have a deep connection, there is no room for divorce or a split up.
Most couples who are connected with each other tend to understand
one another better. Sympathy and empathy in the relationship go
hand in hand. If their partner is sad then they are. Sometimes it may
take a few years for a couple to feel truly connected with each other or
less than a few months, depending on how long they’ve been together.
Sadly, financial issues are one of the top reasons for divorce. If the
two of you have trouble handling money and bills tend to pile up, the
relationship will become strained. It is strained because of the stress
that’s accumulated during financial hardships.